Intimacy Coordination
I work as an intimacy coordinator, creating safe, respectful, and creatively supportive environments for scenes involving intimacy, nudity, etc. My approach is rooted in consent-based practices centering artistry and storytelling, and I work closely with directors, actors, and crew to ensure clarity, comfort, and mutual trust throughout the process.
I’ve received training from Theatrical Intimacy Education and have recently coordinated a production of West Wise Story, a short film involving an infant, and a workshop of a new play.
If your production is looking to approach intimate content with professionalism, care, and intention, I’d love to support your team in telling those stories responsibly and powerfully.
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Credits
West Side Story - Encore Musical Theater Company, 2025
Crybaby - Short Film, Stefania Gonzalez, 2025
Training
Beginner Diploma in Intimacy Choreography, Theatrical Intimacy Education
Intimacy Coordination Workshop, David Thackeray
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“I had the privilege of experiencing Lily’s gifts as an intimacy coordinator last month while working on a film called CRY BABY. It was a very delicate scene on a very rambunctious set filled with creatives. Lily immediately primed the space in the hour before the baby arrived. I have been working as an actress for over 30 years, and I have truly never seen anyone handle a situation like this as Lily did. She was able to communicate the need for stillness in a way that felt as accessible as it was necessary. Lily made simple suggestions as she observed quietly the baby’s ever-changing demeanor and behavior, knew when to pause the work and allow the mother and baby a quiet moment to regroup alone, all this with a wisdom and care way beyond her years.”
- Michelle Aaron, Actress
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West Side Story
Cry Baby